Have you ever visited a free online chat room? You probably thought it was the wildest thing in the world. Lots of crazy guys trying to crack jokes, lots of dudes trying to get on each other’s nerves, and of course, the chicks. Make no mistake about it, free online chat rooms can be very topsy turvy, chaotic, and also a lot of fun.
If you know what you’re doing, you can actually hook up at free online chat rooms. Now, you’re probably rubbing your eyes after I said that. You probably are thinking, no way, it’s just too crazy. Well, think again. Actually, guys hook up at free online chat rooms all the time. You just really need to step up your game. It doesn’t get any simpler than that.
If you’re having a tough time making any kind of sexual connection at free online chat rooms, whether with chicks who are professional models, stripping in front of you, or random women that just drop in from time to time because they’re into sexy chat, you need to listen up. It’s not as difficult as you might think it is. It’s really sad that when it comes to hooking up with members of the opposite sex, guys automatically think that it’s almost impossible. They automatically believe that they have a snowball’s chance in hell of hooking up with all these fine women.
In fact, the more good looking the women are, the more depressed guys get regarding their chances of hooking up with these chicks. It’s no surprise that a lot of the guys that’s hooked up with women like clockwork are guys that you would consider ugly. I’m not joking. This is real talk. The reason why that’s the case is because these guys freed themselves from the negative mindsets that limit other guys.
If you’re sick and tired of not hooking up at free online chat rooms and anywhere else, you need to listen up. Really. You need to open your mind and pay attention to what I’m about to say because I will take your hook up game to a much higher level. Listen up.
You must first believe for you to achieve
I don’t want to sound like some sort of bumper sticker or some sort of a picture quote you see at Facebook, but let me lay it out: if you want to achieve, you must first believe. For you to hook up with chicks online, you must first believe that it’s possible.
You must first get it in your head that, yes you can be that guy who will be sticking your dick in all those chicks. If you think about the possibility of online hook ups without you in the mix or without you being one of the participants, guess what will happen? That’s right. At some level or other, your subconscious will work against you and your fantasy will never come true. It will remain a fantasy.
Sure, you get excited about your fantasy. Maybe you even jerk off at your fantasy, but that’s pretty much the extent of its benefit to you. Do you see how this works? You have to believe that you can be that guy in your fantasy making things happen instead of the dude who’s sitting around and seeing all these guys fuck all these amazing women and ask themselves what the fuck happened? You don’t want to be the guy that you are now, and it all begins with what you choose to believe.
Believe that this is possible. Believe that what you fantasized about cannot only happen, but it can happen to you. Do you see what’s going on there? You’re taking two leaps of faith. Not only are you declaring that it can happen, but of all the people in the world, it happens to you. This is really important because the more you repeat this, the more you retrain that reality shaping engine called your mind.
Make no mistake about it, your mind shapes your reality. I know you might probably feel small. You probably feel powerless. You probably feel that you really don’t call the shots or have much control over anything happening in your life. But you know what? It’s all perception. If that’s how you choose to perceive yourself, then that becomes your reality. You perceive yourself as small, weak and ineffective, and that’s the kind of reality you live.
So believe in your fantasy and believe that you’re the guy that that fantasy happens to. You are the recipient of that fantasy. You become the center of that world. When you do this, you start reprogramming your subconscious and your subconscious kicks into gear because it hates inconsistencies. It hates operating on one track, as far as subconscious reality is concerned and on the other track when it comes to conscious reality.
Your mind is a very powerful biochemical machine and it will try to reconcile these two realities. Now, if you keep feeding it an alternate reality, then it will find a way to make that alternate reality your waking reality. Instead of fantasizing about hot blondes or brunettes that you meet at free online chat rooms, you start living it out. How? Pay attention to tip number two.
Tip #2: When you truly believe you will achieve, you start behaving differently.
I’ve got some bad news for you. The world doesn’t give a damn about your feelings. That’s right. The cat’s out of the bag. The world doesn’t give a shit about what you feel. It couldn’t care less about your intentions, motivations. It has no fucks to give when it comes to the things that you could have done, should have done, or would have done. Seriously, none of that shit matters.
I don’t mean to be a downer. I definitely don’t mean to depress you or discourage you, but this is fact. And the sooner you wrap your mind around this fact is the sooner you will make the progress. You see a lot of guys are powerless, weak, and out of control because they just get so focused on their feelings. They think that their feelings are reality. They blur the lines between how things are and how things should be as it plays out in their heads.
Accordingly, they feel that the world is unfair and it’s out to get them because things never work out according to what they would like to see happen. In other words, their feelings guide them instead of their attention being focused on where it needs to go. Where should you focus your attention? Very simple. Focus it on action.
You have a belief. Your belief is that you’re that guy and those free online chat rooms that are talking to the chicks the right way and getting them to suck your dick. You’re that guy. You believe that. If you truly believe that, then you would start behaving differently. When you go to free online chat rooms, you don’t say the same bullshit, corny ass jokes. You don’t play the same bullshit games. You step up.
You’re not that guy hiding in the shadows, lurking and waiting for the action to break out. You take the initiative. You try, and maybe you get shot down and fail, but you try again. You keep getting up, getting shot down, and fail. But every time you get shot down, you learn something new. That’s how a person who truly believes behaves.
Again, it has nothing to do with your feelings because guises what? Fuck your feelings. All that matters are the results that you produce because whenever you start producing results, the world sits up and pays attention. You suddenly become somebody when you start doing something.
So you can fantasize all you want, but all the fantasies in the world are not going to change your present reality. You’re sitting at home, jerking off lonely, feeling like a loser. And guess what? You continue living that way because you let your feelings get the better of you, so start paying attention to actions. Resolve in your head that you’re going to be judged not by your intentions, not by your feelings, but based off what you actually do.
So if you want to be a winner, start acting like a winner. The best way to do this is to start acting like it. To start acting like a winner is to start looking like one. Hit the gym. Get some exercise. Wear better clothes. Project more confidence. As the old saying goes, fake it until you make it. A lot of people roll their eyes about that concept. A lot of people think that it’s fake insincere and bullshit. Well, it may be for them, but you know what? There’s a lot of truth in that because you become what you project, so take action today and make what you believe a reality. Be that guy. That’s how you hook up at free online chat rooms.